Happy Hook Ups - The New York Post Article

A Little Narcissism Goes A Long Way by Holly Brubach

Patti Novak's Tough Love - Oprah.com

The Rachael Ray Show - 7/21/08

Specialist in Tough (To) Love - The New York Times Article

The Big Idea with Donny Deutsch - CNBC - What to look for to find a spouse for success

Matchmaker's Dating Dos and Don'ts - CNN.com Article

The New York Observer Article

Part Dating Coach, Part Fairy Godmother - CBS Early Show Segment

Love, The Cosmic Phenomenon

Every person on this planet is taking their initiation in love. 

"A new commandment I give unto you, that ye love one another." 

Real love is selfless and free of fear. It pours itself out on the object of its affections, without the demands of anything in return. We must be ready for the right relationship in order to receive this.

Unselfish love draws to itself on its own, it does not need to seek demand. Man is selfish, or fearful of his affections,
thereby losing the thing he loves.

Jealousy is the worst enemy of love; our untamed imagination runs wild, seeing our loved one attracted to another. Inevitably these fears will control us, if not neutralized.

You can never receive what you have never given.

Give a perfect love and you will receive a perfect love.

When you send out real love, real love will return to you.
 

The Power of our Words

A person knowing the power of the word,
becomes very careful of his conversation.
He has only to watch the reaction of his
words to know that "do not return" void.

I can tell you this through personal experience.
If I have learned one thing in my forty-one years,
it is to try to watch my words very carefully.

Many people in new meetings and relationships will
use words instead of listening to communicate.
It is my thought, that through listening,
much more is accomplished.
 

Light His Fire, Light Her Fire

A woman goes through life with her heart.
A man goes through life with his head.

A man says, "I think," which is the logical response...
A woman says, "I feel," the emotional response.

A man sees the whole or the overview.
A woman sees the details.

A man says,
"In general, what happened?"
A woman says,
"Tell me exactly, word for word, what happened?"

A man works on goals.
A woman works on relationships.

A man says, "I need to feel good about what I do."
A woman says, "I need to feel good about who we are."

A man needs little or no preparation for sex.
A woman needs hours of emotional and mental preparation.

A man is stimulated by sight.
A woman is stimulated by words.